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6. What we want to purchase is less important than what we need to buy. What must we really have? For folks facing retirement or other financial challenges with too little money, this is more than an academic question. In many cases, it involves funds to offer a nutritious diet for all in our family, an adequate place to live, transportation, money for good health care, paying our debts and taxes, utilities, gasoline and maintenance for vehicles, insurance premiums, and home repairs. Each household's necessities are its own, but, for many, necessary expenses can also include alimony, child support, day care or babysitting, a smart phone, and funds for fresh learning or education. The average person probably needs some kind of entertainment as well, so throw in dollars for at least modest recreational expenses, perhaps for dancing, concerts, eating out, travel, books or magazines, deserts, movies, or costs related to a favorite hobby. Such overall expenses can typically be pared down to an extent. One need not have as much square footage in a home as parents might have acquired after several promotions and decades in their jobs. One might get by with medium-priced health care, not a "gold" plan. A compact car that's a few years old might suffice rather than the latest model sports car or SUV. High fashion clothes are nice to have but can put stress on a sensible budget.
And most of what we need might be less tangible, also less expensive: a happy marriage; a lower stress lifestyle; good times with kids, grandkids, nieces, or nephews, work we pretty much enjoy; pets; exercise; time; leisure pursuits we really dig; and friendships.
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